如果在你生命中，出现了一个你很爱很爱的对象，你愿意为他/她做任何的事，而他也愿意跟你在一起，但他跟你在一起的种种理由之中，并不包括爱，那你会怎样对待？
有些情侣，在一起时轰轰烈烈，散了之后可能两方面都若无其事，可能两个都痛苦，这样应该还好，比较可悲的是一个伤痕累累，一个却把对方当成过客，船过水无痕。可能在他们的关系中，爱情只是一时的错觉……
看过一套连续剧，男配角爱着女主角很久很久，但可能就因为他是男配角，不管他为女主角付出再多，而得不到回应，身为观众之一的我，也并不为他觉得可惜。他可以为她做很多，很多年来一直将她摆在心里最重要的位置，很清楚知道这不是友情，但却以女主角认为可以令她最舒服的身份，一个好朋友的身份，一直爱着她。虽然他也尝试着跟其它的异性相处，尝试恋爱，但他总是清楚，只要女主角需要他，他可以把什么都摆在一边。
这样的人快乐吗？快乐与受伤害的感觉应该会纠缠不清吧！他至少知道自己爱上的这个人，愿意一辈子跟他在一起，可以是很亲密很亲密的，可惜，种种在一起的因素之中，独独缺少了爱。
世上会有这种人吗？真的有人可以不问回报的爱着另一个人吗？可以爱多久呢？
有些情侣，在一起时轰轰烈烈，散了之后可能两方面都若无其事，可能两个都痛苦，这样应该还好，比较可悲的是一个伤痕累累，一个却把对方当成过客，船过水无痕。可能在他们的关系中，爱情只是一时的错觉……
看过一套连续剧，男配角爱着女主角很久很久，但可能就因为他是男配角，不管他为女主角付出再多，而得不到回应，身为观众之一的我，也并不为他觉得可惜。他可以为她做很多，很多年来一直将她摆在心里最重要的位置，很清楚知道这不是友情，但却以女主角认为可以令她最舒服的身份，一个好朋友的身份，一直爱着她。虽然他也尝试着跟其它的异性相处，尝试恋爱，但他总是清楚，只要女主角需要他，他可以把什么都摆在一边。
这样的人快乐吗？快乐与受伤害的感觉应该会纠缠不清吧！他至少知道自己爱上的这个人，愿意一辈子跟他在一起，可以是很亲密很亲密的，可惜，种种在一起的因素之中，独独缺少了爱。
世上会有这种人吗？真的有人可以不问回报的爱着另一个人吗？可以爱多久呢？
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你要不要成为这种人，这可能又是另外一回事了。
虽然说等待是难熬的，是令人想放弃的，但等到的那一剎那，让人第二天會继续等下去。。。
伤害应该是多过快乐吧！可惜的是，当局者迷。
走向目的地的旅途上，如果懂得欣赏路上的风景，快乐点滴了累积，其实是可以大于伤害的，可惜，快乐总是会被遗忘的特别快，因此我们都以为，拥有的，只有痛……
A guy who just lost his wife, who just broke up with his girlfriend, or who just failed the exam, sees the grass like feeling his sadness and so it is quivering.
A guy who just won the million lottery, who just succeed in his propose, or even he was only passing a driving test, feel the shiver is a sign of bliss out sharing his joyfulness.
Do you think the grass trembles of your emotion?
No, it trembles of the breeze.
Anyway just sign up the trip with me & our family to HK Disney and with those kids you will be fine.
No guarantee but hey who cares, there will never have any.
哈哈~ 感情可能就是唯一可以反映人类是如何的愚蠢和无知的东西。
爱的悲壮又如何？
全世界会发起一个纪念日来纪念你吗？
有人会为你立起一个‘爱情战士’纪念碑吗？
执迷不悟、迷信爱情、死不放手、坚守着一个空墓；只有笨蛋才会做！
死了让人歌泣你，你的愚蠢！
不切实际！
"God knows."
of course God knows everything...
but dun blame others for your misfortunes...
dun blame God, gods, yourself, the one who disappointed you or any 3rd parties.
when you start to pointing finger at people, remember, people will point their fingers at you also.
not their fault. it's a no one's fault.
万事互相效益。益！
Mother who lost her children might be sad for the rest of her life, this love is not "foolish" at all.
"感情可能就是唯一可以反映人类是如何的愚蠢和无知的东西"
No, it is money.
Mother who lost her children might be sad for the rest of her life, this love is not "foolish" at all.
this is the Agape Love ... the unconditional love...
but then i think wormy would mean the love which exist between two people as lover...
and it drill down to the matter of commitment and 爱情.
hmmm i think i should use the 其中一个 instead of 唯一， thanks for the enlightment anyway ;-)
But frankly you think man-woman cannot have Agape Love? I will say "yes" but again it does not mean you are wrong, ok.
But frankly you think man-woman cannot have Agape Love? I will say "yes" but again it does not mean you are wrong, ok.
man-woman relationship will have Agape Love or not?
That's a good one, looking at those living examples - i dunno the exact answer - diff people diff approach to tackle this matter.
Some indulge themselves in the sorrows and grief, find their solace and comfort at the wrong edge of the world.
Some still love that person till the end of days and by doing so, it shadows and stumble that person and other people... including yourself...
Some would take time to heal, and would proudly tell the world:
I love her/him, but the love remains in other way
Mind you, at this stage, it's a balance, where both parties could meet and talk cheerfully... can it be archieved? Yes, I can tell you that.
Since, it's an unconditional love, you should love that person unconditionally and not to hurt that person or yourself or sometimes people around you, who cares for you.
Hehehe, but sometimes, parents' love could also hurt us in some manners, dun you think so Ahcoln?
Yes I do
(does not mean I am willing to marry you)
:-)
Let's not arrogate Wormy's home agree?
that's the reason wy I share my thought also ...
check it out here:
http://ta469ch.blogspot.com/